Steve and I have implemented "Love and Logic" parenting in our house which has been both a relief for us as it gives us a tool and consistent pattern to discipline with but also thus far, fairly effective results. While several days may go by without any punishments, others do not go so smoothly and so Abi has learned that "Uh oh, what a bummer" is a clear indicator she's headed for a timeout or other punishment. A fun part of this discipline strategy though is providing lots of options which has been quite engaging and helps direct Abi wonderfully while she believes she in total control.
In the bathtub last night, she was advised that it was time to get out and she needed to help pick up her tub toys. This seemed to fall on deaf ears so I explained to her that if she chose not to help pick up toys, she would not get to read three books like she prefers (two apparently isn't enough). Steve and I had a little chat about whether that would be effective as L&L indicates that removing rewards or treats isn't very effective or comprehended until about age 3.
As I gave the "Uh oh bummer" indicator about not getting three books and why again to what I thought were deaf ears, Abi started to pick up the toys while singing the "Clean Up" song and then said, "Two books?" ...
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